Breaking up sucks!

[kirkg]

I hate saying goodbye to girls forever, it really fucks with your head...

And the worst part is not knowing the next time you're gonna get laid.

Arrrrrrrrrrghhhhhhhh...

So when was your last breakup?

[Octocamo]

Never had a girlfriend. So it hasn't happened to me. :D

Sucks for you mate.

[True]

I hate saying goodbye to girls forever, it really fucks with your head...

And the worst part is not knowing the next time you're gonna get laid.

Arrrrrrrrrrghhhhhhhh...

So when was your last breakup?

Umm, last Febuary is when me and my GF broke up. It sucks but I got over it. now I just play the field, carefully lol. Girls here can be a bit crazy though. My very first GF (when I was 11 or 12) cursed me out when I broke up with her, yet when we went to H.S. she tried to get back with me.

My first serious GF in H.S. (cheerleader captain my I add! Shy guy gets one of the hottest girls, highlight of my H.S. life). I broke up with her because her jealous friends started telling her that I liked other girls....I had a lot of girls-as-friends, but I spent most of my time with her! I got tired of the nagging, we tried to be friends still but ended up hating each other (she tried to make me jealous sooo many times, with idiot guys! I just laughed it off), now we are still in contact with each other and are cool.

last GF, we broke up because we never really hungout too much, we both were way busy, me with college and work, her with senior year in H.S. and work, we decided to call it off. I was kinda hurt by this one cause we were soo much alike and she was damn hot! O'well. I've gone out about 3 times since then, but have a couple of numbers that I probably won't call. Girls are a nice accessory, but can be a pain in the ass and head. Each girl has a song
that reminds me of them, and If I hear them, They bring back good and bad memories.

[kirkg]

Oh god I hate the songs that bring back memories, they make me cringe each time I hear them.

I was driving down the road with my boys on Saturday and some song came on that reminded me of my most recent breakup, and it depressed the hell out of me. But of course I never would have said anything about it, kept it to myself.

[Arandar]

Meh bastard. At least you have had a g/f, atleast more seriously. I have somewhat had 2 g/fs where met met online and I only met each of them twice. Of course I was the one to get dumped. Ironically I so wanted to get a g/ and the first one was when I was 16 and then dumped like a month and half later, then the next one a few weeks after and dumped after 5 weeks. That was 3 years ago and I haven't had one since. Or gotten any really, so that sucks. I start a new job, or at least the training, on tuesday so hopefully I will be able to at least meet some girl or girls from that and get a g/f, even if it never does turn into anything really serious like engagment or anything.

[kirkg]

Work definitely does give you an edge towards meeting new females, I'm sure you'll be okay.

Someone told me once that girls like guys to talk bullshit to them, and I think it might be true. Try it out.

[Darkdunpeal]

Its all about confidence, but sadly that something i dont have. :(

[Arandar]

Its all about confidence, but sadly that something i dont have. :(
Yeah same here. I just don't really have the confidence to just go up and talk to a girl. I'm to shy and nervous to do that. That pretty much does work against me, but theres not really much I can do if thats the way I am. Heh why can't girls come up and hit on me? That would be so great! :D

[AcquiredTarget]

Last g/f..... 5 years ago and the older I get, the more I seem to enjoy staying out of relationships (though I will admit to moments of wishing I had something nice, soft, smelling good, and female to hang out with).

I start a new job, or at least the training, on tuesday so hopefully I will be able to at least meet some girl or girls from that and get a g/f Congrats on the new job. I worked in a bookstore for a few years. I had a lot of fun, read a few good books and a hell of a lot of worse ones. Nice discounts on books too. Be cautious if you get into a relationship wif a co-worker. I've seen (and gotten caught in the middle of) too many workplace romances blow-up and get very sticky in terms of management and HR.

[Stonecoldfreak1]

i broke up with my girl earlier this week but i think were back together now. very long ass story tho so eh.

[KingKongSushi]

All by myseeeeeeeeelf. Don't wanna be, all by myself....anymore....... :(

[kirkg]

I'm drunk and depressed about this girl again. My brain is retarded.

[arefx]

Oh man, like a year in 4 months, long ass time I know, I haven't met any girls that have that thing to them, just gotta keep looking, although im not to worried about a relationship right now, but damn I need some P if you know what I mean, been too long.

*EDIT* and yeah, you gotta have confidence, if you don't they wont want you. I don't have much confidence though as a result of growing up with an alcoholic father during my childhood, who used to get physical when he was drunk.. which was all the time, but im getting better about the whole self esteem thing.

[kirkg]

i'm just sick of sleeping around, I just want a nice girl to love me so we can drive all over the country together, and drink and smoke and live our short ass lives out. but it's not that simple.

[arefx]

i'm just sick of sleeping around, I just want a nice girl to love me so we can drive all over the country together, and drink and smoke and live our short ass lives out. but it's not that simple.


I hear you. It's the simple things liek gasoline, engines, tobacco, THC, ethanol, and girls... well you know.

[Arandar]

i'm just sick of sleeping around, I just want a nice girl to love me so we can drive all over the country together, and drink and smoke and live our short ass lives out. but it's not that simple.
What are you a hillbilly? It basically sounds like you want to own some house in the deep south sitting outside on the porch in a rocking chair with a bottle of jack daniels in your hand and a shotgun on your lap. I just hope your not a racist as well.

Heh are you sure your a guy though? I mean a guy saying hes sick of sleeping around? There must be something wrong with you then. :razz: I know I certainly would love, well maybe not love, but at least like to "sleep around" somewhat since I never really got a chance to do that before. Damn my life sucks.

[kirkg]

I wouldn't really say I wanna sit around on my porch, I just wanna travel around and stuff.

There's nothin wrong with me (my friends would say different) it's hard to explain. When you spend like, I dunno, 14 years breaking up with girl after girl after girl you get sick of it. And when you find a girl that makes you laugh and makes you happy and she's beautiful you just wanna be with her. Well I do anyways.

[arefx]

I wouldn't really say I wanna sit around on my porch, I just wanna travel around and stuff.

There's nothin wrong with me (my friends would say different) it's hard to explain. When you spend like, I dunno, 14 years breaking up with girl after girl after girl you get sick of it. And when you find a girl that makes you laugh and makes you happy and she's beautiful you just wanna be with her. Well I do anyways.


Yeah I know, someone who you can always be with, someone who will allways be ther for you, and you for them, someone to just spend time with, and enjoy/love.


EDIT: 666 posts ;)

[Killer]

sux2bu

[kirkg]

sux2bu

maybe, but if I had to choose between being me and being you.. definitely me.

[agn]

breaking up totally sucks if you like the person. that's one of the best things about my 11 year relationship, not dealing with breakups.

[Arandar]

breaking up totally sucks if you like the person. that's one of the best things about my 11 year relationship, not dealing with breakups.
Heh yeah it also helps that your married and live in California. :razz:

[True]

I wouldn't really say I wanna sit around on my porch, I just wanna travel around and stuff.

There's nothin wrong with me (my friends would say different) it's hard to explain. When you spend like, I dunno, 14 years breaking up with girl after girl after girl you get sick of it. And when you find a girl that makes you laugh and makes you happy and she's beautiful you just wanna be with her. Well I do anyways.


I hear ya man. Although it's fun to do those things, when you have that one chick who is just that cool to be around, I'll take that over any other.

[kirkg]

Last night I got some with this 18 year old chick I met. I didn't actually get laid (pms) but she took care of me. She promised me the next time I see her it will be different.

Breaking up doesn't seem so bad anymore.

Er, until I stop seeing this chick, doh.

[Ziggler]

Last night I got some with this 18 year old chick I met. I didn't actually get laid (pms) but she took care of me. She promised me the next time I see her it will be different.

Breaking up doesn't seem so bad anymore.

Er, until I stop seeing this chick, doh.

okay, that was way too much information...

[Stonecoldfreak1]

i swear every fuckin breakup i go through is so messed up its hard to even believe. i had one where the girl didnt even tell me we were breaking up she just simply said "i still want to be friends". she gave everyone a different reason why she broke up with me too which i couldnt believe. next for this one, everything is fine after the breakup and were getting along. suddenly one of her friends gets online and starts to say a whole bunch of shit without even saying its not my ex. then she starts saying how i lied to her friend and that her friend has it alot worse than me (for one i hope that the girl is cognisant of how bad she does have it but i DO have it worse than her... like it really matters though). anyway it was just really weird and the thing is the ex gf was sitting right there letting her do this. she kept saying how i had lied to her friend and thats the reason why we are through and she was scared that i was going to lie to her. her friend had gotten on her name before and said some shit and then the ex said she had no idea about this. the night all of this happened she admited that she knew all about it. sounds like a buncha hypocrites to me because it sounds like she is saying its fine if she lies to me but she is scared that i will lie to her. psycho mother fuckers around here i tell ya...

[Duke218]

See, I am inclined to agree with Scot on this one. IF, you can make it through the rough times. That is one nice thing about a long term relationship. Although, it can make the fights a little more intence. If the both of you know that basicly no matter what is said no one will just up and leave, the all hell can break loose. And,if both people know that much about the other one, some of it will come up in moments of anger.

[dl4ndow]

See, I am inclined to agree with Scot on this one. IF, you can make it through the rough times. That is one nice thing about a long term relationship. Although, it can make the fights a little more intence. If the both of you know that basicly no matter what is said no one will just up and leave, the all hell can break loose. And,if both people know that much about the other one, some of it will come up in moments of anger.

One of the best things about long term relationships is that you have a strong intimacy and a strong level of trust and honesty. Yes, the arguments can be intense but so can the "forgiveness." It's the fire that keeps us alive.

[True]

Last night I got some with this 18 year old chick I met. I didn't actually get laid (pms) but she took care of me. She promised me the next time I see her it will be different.

Breaking up doesn't seem so bad anymore.

Er, until I stop seeing this chick, doh.
I hope you aren't like 30 or something lol.

[kirkg]

Nah, I'm just 21.

[True]

haha, ok.

[Arandar]

I hope you aren't like 30 or something lol.
Heh, hey 16 is the age-of-consent here in Massachusetts. :smt002

[kirkg]

I live in MA but I wouldn't touch a 16 year old. I would let her touch me though!

[Arandar]

I live in MA but I wouldn't touch a 16 year old. I would let her touch me though!
Another person from Massachusetts? Where are you from? I'm on the North Shore, Ziggler, and All-Night John are out west past Springfield, Scot(agn) ir from Randolph originally which is near Andover I think, then theres Alex sorry I forget the rest of your name, and I think 1 or 2 more people. Heh I think that settles if we ever had an All Games cookout that it should be up here in Massachusetts, considering half the people who post here are from there.

[kirkg]

that's a lot of people. I'm on the North Shore near Boston. I'm up for a cook out, I like cheeseburgers.

[True]

I live in MA but I wouldn't touch a 16 year old. I would let her touch me though!

Naww, I just couldn't do even that. Hell I feel funny even talking to a 18 year old. I think 19 would be the lowest I would go.......until next year lol.

[Style]

last real relationship i was in, i broke up with her in april of 2002. I didnt want another relationship for the longest time, until I met someone I was compatible with, and that ones been going strong for two months now. I'm going to knock on wood, and hope we never ever break up.